Depp Vs Heard

I'm still working on this sorry if its trash. This topic means a lot to me since it's somewhat of a personal topic.

The Problem With Online Narratives

Imagine influencers and commentary YouTubers making clickbait videos about you, a case you're involved in, without actually knowing the full story, understanding the context, or researching the people involved. Making memes about either side of an alleged abuse situation is disgusting and deeply disrespectful, I will not be doing that here even if I side with one party more than the other. A lot of people accept whatever they see or hear without checking the facts themselves. Repeating the same claim over and over can make people believe it’s true, even when there is little evidence. This is known as proof by repetition or argumentum ad nauseam.

What the Verdict Actually Meant

Let's get this straight, the verdict of the case was not to declare Amber Heard guilty of abuse, lying, perjury, or even a crime. The case was a civil defamation judgment. The New Yorker article noted that the case was misinterpreted, with many treating it as a trial to assign blame, when in fact it focused on specific defamatory statements. It began with allegations of domestic abuse, sparked by Amber Heard's 2018 Washington Post opinion piece. Depp countered that the article falsely suggested he'd committed violence, ruining his reputation and costing him major roles. He wasn't named, but claimed readers could guess his identity from their relationship and the timing of the piece. These are the 3 statements that Johnny Depp sued Amber Heard for. Following a highly publicized trial in Fairfax, Virginia, the jury found that Heard had defamed Depp on all three counts of his lawsuit, awarding him over $10 million in damages. The jury also found in favor of Heard on one of her three counter suits, ruling that Depp’s former attorney had defamed her, and awarded her $2 million in compensation. Justice Andrew Nicol ruled that The Sun was legally justified in calling Johnny Depp a "wife beater" because the core allegations were proven to be substantially true (paragraphs 575 and 585). Specifically, the judge found that 12 out of the 14 alleged instances of abuse presented by Amber Heard met the civil standard of proof of being "more likely than not."

“Tell the World, Johnny”

The original poster allows their subscribers to say rude things to Amber Heard -- Wait a minute... I just realized it was cut so I found the actual video, with subtitles, so I’ve downloaded the MP4. (if you're curious about how cut it was, here) In the call, Amber says: “Tell the world, Johnny, tell them, ‘I, Johnny Depp, a man, am a victim too of domestic violence,’ and see how many people believe or side with you.” Taken alone, this can sound like she is mocking his claims, but with the context of the full call, it can be interpreted as her saying that if he told the world he was a victim, people would believe him over her*, and she gave him the idea to claim it was "mutual abuse". * The reason could be for anything, that he's a man so his testimony is likely to be deemed more credible, that his career has more influence, etc. here's her bruises from when he threw the phone at her

She spends much of the call apologizing, explaining that she did not want the police involved, and trying to defend herself while he accuses her of causing his injury*. He calls her a cunt, over and over again. *He's trying to claim that she's the reason he lost the finger, but a hand surgeon testified in court said it couldn't have happened like that, and there's messages from 2015 where he said that he severed his own finger.
The finger injury claim was something the UK court could not confirm. They said they did not know exactly how it happened, but they found that Heard was not responsible, The claim also seems unlikely. For Depp’s version to be true, Heard would have had to throw a bottle with the exact force and accuracy needed to hit his finger. The bottle would then have had to break and injure his finger without causing any other visible damage to his entire hand.
1 2 (page 75) 3 (page 80) archive Roquelle/Rocky also testified Depp told her he cut his own finger off.
Depp's bloody finger graffiti on mirrors

Johnny Depp’s Past Incidents and Controversies

September 13, 1994 Mark Hotel Incident NYC
Johnny Depp was arrested after being accused of damaging his room at the Mark Hotel on East 77th Street. Police reported that furniture and glass had been smashed. The charges were later dropped on the condition that Depp pay approximately $9,767 in damages. Police Officer Eileen Perez responded to the hotel’s call at around 5:30 AM. She described finding glass scattered throughout the room, furniture overturned, and broken table legs. Perez said Depp was sitting calmly in the room, smoking a cigarette with his then-girlfriend, model Kate Moss. Depp later commented about Officer Perez, saying, “I don't think she likes me, but if she saw me at the mall, I bet she'd ask for an autograph.”

February 1, 1999 Photographer Dispute
Witnesses reported that Depp became angry when photographers attempted to take his picture. According to reports, he grabbed a plank and swung it while threatening the photographers if they did not leave. This article referenced the 1994 Mark Hotel incident with Kate Moss while discussing Depp’s history of confrontational behavior.

1993 The Viper Room & Lawsuit Involving Anthony Fox
In 1993, Depp became part owner of The Viper Room alongside business partner Anthony Fox, who owned the other share. Fox later became involved in a multi-million-dollar lawsuit against Depp, alleging that Depp and others had engaged in fraud related to the business. Before Fox was scheduled to testify, he disappeared along with his truck and rifle. His truck was later found abandoned in California, but Fox was never found. The Viper Room was also associated with allegations of a secret underground poker operation.

Reddit timeline compilation Yes using Reddit is stupid but they compiled articles I'm too lazy to put into my own words and or reupload #SOZ

Problematic dating history

Depp has consistently dated younger women throughout his life. While some people argue that this does not matter because they were adults (“she was 18+ you sick fuck” meme), it can still be viewed as a recurring pattern and a concerning personal preference. This becomes a point of discussion, especially when considering the concerns about power dynamics, age gaps, and the public conversations surrounding exploitation and abuse in Hollywood/elite circles.

Winona Ryder (1989–1993): Depp was 26, Ryder was 17 or 18, making him about 8 or 9 years older.
Kate Moss (1994–1998): Depp was 31, Moss was 20, making him about 11 years older.
Vanessa Paradis (1998–2012): Depp was 35, Paradis was 25, making him about 10 years older.
Amber Heard (relationship began around 2011/2012, married 2015): Depp was 48–49, Heard was 25–26, making him about 23 years older.
Polina Glen (reported 2018–2019): Depp was 54, Glen was around 22, making him about 32 years older.

In terms of global name recognition and entertainment industry power, I would assume that Depp is more globally influential, if it wasn't for my interest in my childhood movies & fashion, I wouldn't know or really care for Winona Ryder & Kate Moss, and I've never heard of Amber Heard until the case blew up, since I very much do not keep up with celebrities.

Large age differences can be associated with power imbalances and controlling behaviors. Men who date younger women use it as a status symbol. 40% of Americans have engaged in age-gap dating, with men more likely to be the ones dating a younger partner. Professor Galena Rhoades talks more about this on Denver EDU. This part is an extreme W.I.P. Men are more often perpetrators of severe intimate partner violence. 1 in 3 women (nearly 43.5 million) and more than 1 in 6 men (20.7 million) experienced contact sexual violence, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner during their lifetimes. Women are disproportionately affected by severe physical violence, sexual violence, and stalking by intimate partners. violence against women intimate partner violence

Bruises

Depp's laywer saying, "oh, you're having a photoshoot inside the courthouse?" ? What the fuck ?

I think that this in particular is unrelated to the bruise above, but I want to point this out: @ F894.022: This is "a picture I took of the injury to my face after an incident after the Met Gala at our hotel (see charges and news report above, he's had a history of this when Amber was a child) in New York, in which Johnny punched me and caused damage"

Lily-Rose Depp and Amber Heard

These texts between Lily Rose Depp (Johnny's daughter) and Amber Heard were blocked in VA trial.

For more context on them: In 2014, Lily became aware about the issues with Amber Heard & Johnny Depp. In the text messages between Lily & Depp, she was advocating for Amber.

“You have to acknowledge and know what a good influence [Amber Heard's] been and the fact that she's changed you for the better. You see that, right?”

*These texts also support Heard’s claim that she was actively trying to help Depp with his alcoholism and addictions. 1

When Lily's parents split, her father and her became estranged due to his heavy drinking and drug usage, which Amber claimed gave Lily anxiety. This can indicate that likely, Depp acts violent or uncomfortably when intoxicated, evidence. Depp even acknowledges knowing Lily hates when he drinks.

In late 2015, their marriage was coming to an end, and there's texts between Lily & Amber that show no animosity, which Johnny Depp has claimed. Lily appears to concerned for Amber's wellbeing. Following the divorce in 2016, Amber and Lily are reported to "most likely maintain a close relationship"

Lily-Rose shared a post supporting her father when the allegations came out later that year. The post did not mention Amber Heard, and she has since deleted it from Instagram. In fact, Lily-Rose has never directly spoken out in defense of her father regarding Amber Heard’s abuse allegations and after Depp won his defamation trial in Virginia, Depp said Heard’s allegations “forever changed” his children’s lives and that taking legal action was something he felt he owed them, Lily Rose did not support the post in any way.

Throughout her Instagram, Lily often shows her love and appreciation for her mother, Vanessa Paradis.

Johnny Depp is largely absent from her posts, which led to criticism from Depp supporters.

Depp venting about his abuser

Depp says the rape and murder messages were just him venting about his abuser. The messages were sent in June 2013, before he accused Amber Heard of abuse. In the U.K. trial, Depp admitted he sent the messages to Paul Bettany because Amber asked him to stop using drugs. See here.

In the messages, Depp said Amber was nagging and that she was delusional for acting like Depp "turned into a monster" when he was intoxicated. Looking through this document I'm sure that Amber’s concerns about his addiction and were not at all unreasonable.

A month later, Depp admitted that his addiction had become so serious that he needed to detox for five days in July 2013. Here he acknowledges needing detox shortly after complaining about Amber is concerned about his drug use.

During the U.S. trial, Depp gave a different explanation for these messages, claiming Amber was being rude to Paul Bettany and had made his son cry. Here you can see that change in his explanation.

However, Paul Bettany described Amber as “delightful company” and “easy on the eye.” This is different from the idea that she was rude to him or caused his son to be upset.

These messages were not simply Depp “venting about his abuser.” They were angry and violent messages sent to his girlfriend after she asked him to stop using drugs. verynormalthingtosay.png

Closing

In my opinion, many of those who support Depp don't show consistent concern for male victims, and used a highly dramatized celebrity case for selective outrage. They will never speak about male victims, because they don't care. I spent a lot of my life in domestic violence shelters and experienced homelessness and received therapy to process the abuse I experienced and witnessed firsthand as a child. I have met both male and female survivors of domestic violence, and I believe many people who defend Depp would not extend the same compassion, understanding, or have given grace to male victims in other situations.

Misc research

Many documented domestic violence victims stay or return to their abuser at least once. There is no exact percentage for all domestic violence survivors, but research shows that leaving is often a process rather than a single decision. Many survivors leave and return multiple times before leaving permanently. Leaving can also be dangerous, about 70% of women killed by an intimate partner were separated from their abuser or were trying to leave when they were killed. Knowing this, it makes sense that many victims may choose to stay because they fear retaliation, escalation, financial problems, or what might happen if they leave.

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